Seduction aka Love aka Fun!!
1.First thing is to choose the right person. You don't want to go through the whole process of seducing a guy and finding out in the end, that he is not your type.In other word get a hot one.
2.Pay Attention flatter him with attention. Throw admiring glances his way every now and then, pass by him and so on.
3.Approach him.If he is also returning your hints, don't be shy to approach him and strike a conversation.
4.Flirt Flirt with him to let him know that you are interested in him and that there are no chances of refusal.
5.Let Him Chase.Now, back off a little. While seducing men, it is necessary to remember that they like the game of chasing and you need to let them enjoy it. However, do not become so cold that they start thinking of pulling away.
6.Make the Final Move By now, both of you must have understood each other's intention. So, go for the final move.Attack.
That how the game start....flirt seduction..it always goes smoothly until.....until you found out he is the one...the person you want as your soul mate.Yea yea its true pick the right person is first step right but first look we cant really pick the right one right.Lets say pick a hot cute guy.;).Fun is all we want until we found out we like him.Then when we found out we have feeling for that guy more than just play.That's when we cant comp with the method anymore.We will show our weakness.So is it better to play or get serious?Because every time i get serious....
B: I think I know why. You don't want to seem like something easy, you want me to recognize your value, you want me to know that you're not like any other girl out there. A, let me tell you something, if you were like every other girl, I wouldn't be here talking to you, do you understand that?
A: Oh...
B: Listen, I don't have time to waste with mindless bitches and whinny brats, I need a real woman, and I think I've found you, but you can't play these games with me. A, the question here isn't whether I'm qualified to be with you or you're qualified to be with me. Do you know what the real question here is?
A: What?
B: The question here, is that if I tried to kiss you, would you stop me? Let's find out...
He kissed passionately, biting and licking my lips, neck, etc., "wow" its all i could say when we finished, which was cool. Then...
A: Ok, no, this is just too good to be true. You're definitely a player.
B: Umm...no...what? wait...what? No! Listen, I'm not a player. I don't have time to be, ok? I know what I want and I'm enough of an asshole to know how to get it.
A: Now that just makes you sound like a player...
B: Look, player or not, are you enjoying yourself?
A: Yes.
B: Are you having fun?
A: Yes.
B: Then that's all that matters. I'm not asking your hand in marriage right now, we're just having fun together, ok?
A: ok...
When you found out you have feeling for a guy and next next date you go out with him.You act differently,you act a little shy,aware what you say,you don't want to lose him,etc.At the beginning you don't give a damn because you just took him for fun not serious.When serious mostly screw the whole damn thing.Or you could say that is when that guy is a player.Well I'm more interested with players,they seems to be more attractive.Well when its a player mostly majority will end it like this if you change from playing to serious...
B:Sorry,i just want to be friend..nothing more than that...
A Hot Cup Of Coffee
All i need now is a hot cup of coffee.Coffee without sugar or creamer will suits my mood for the week.Bitter but it taste as good as ever.Bitter explain it all.Family's,Friendship,Relationship,Social etc our daily routine is sometimes or actually always bitter our day.Our high expectation makes our life harder to go on.Forgive and forget is one of the harder principal to keep as you all know that its extremely easy to break.
I always think 'why' are they so unconsidered,unreasonable,irrationally.After all we are related,after all we have been friends for so long,after all i trusted you,after all i took you as a close friend,after all we been so long together etc.Hurt is all we get in return sometimes.
All of a sudden i sat down have a hot cup of coffee and think deeply.Its my expectation and disappointment that brings me to hurt.Why must i so foolish to have high expectation on them.I ought to have expectation on myself not them.Its not their fault that is who they are.
My mom always remind be don't be so naive,so quickly trust people they will hurt you.It happens to since i was a little kid.My expectation was from 101% to 40%.Its very bad for me but unfortunately my mom claim it supposed to be 0.00%.Well i still have expectation as i believe its unfair for those people out there that ought to have expectation.Even national service i have high expectation on them but they let me down.They disappointed me.As i ask other people in other camp majority its a very normal thing to happen.Happens to a lot of people to.So this is life isn't it.The reality that i seems to loath.
Turn to who when I'm in uncertainty,fear,darkness,lost and despair.Open the bible and recall back what happen to Job and ill feel much better.I might have been through a lot of pain,hurt,suffering and despair but i never can compare to Job a person that i admire from the start when i open the bible.As life is bitter and sweet just like coffee its bitter but a lot of people enjoy it.The bitter the better.
Praise the Lord in the Highest of Heavens. He supplies our guides and teachers at the exact moment we are ready. When we are still, we feel His loving arms surround us. His love presses in. His spirit washes us, heals us, and we are made whole. We then are ready for the next step in His learning for us. We accept the awesome miracle of grace. We cling to it in times of uncertainty, fear, darkness,lost and despair. We learn to release our fear and anxiety and lay them at the feet of our Savior.
A Hot Cup Of Coffee
