"les jours passent mais la mémoire jamais ne s'efface"

Monday, November 05, 2007

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Its The Way See Your Problems

When days are dark and cold,holidays and festivals are coming to due,relationship,friendships and family's are getting soar.We ourselves are intent to be depress and moody.Instantly everything we see is a black,boring,pathetic day.Pressing us down and make us feeling hopeless and useless.

There is always up and down in our life,always have a reason to it.We have no options but to face problem..its either now or later.Most of us will always think we are right or we make our own theory that side us more.Twist and turn a story.That's the reason why people have to hear from two side not just one.We always get depress and despair about our problems when its cant compare to those people that having problems that related to life and death.Worst part is those people that facing problems relating to life and death could take the matter lighter than those having emotional problems.

Life is full of problems that why we are sent here to complete the problems.Like a test to see how we face the problem,to be more experience,to face life better and better through out of our experience.Problems is how the way you see it,why not you try to be in the other side shoe.No offense meant but even i get depress once in awhile or few times a year but in another word its not depress its 'self pity'.When ever i get into this dilemma i try to get out of it as soon as possible before it get worst.

Once upon a time...........,

One day A was walking down the street,when A saw his friend B approaching.It was evident from his downtrodden look that he wasn't overflowing with ecstasy or anything but more like he was dragging to bottom pit.

A ask B 'how are you?'.B took 15 minute to reply with a serious look then enlightened A his problems.The more B talk the more A felt pity.

Finally A said to him 'I'm sorry to see you in such a depressed state.How did you get in this way?'

B replied 'its my problems,nothing but problems.If you could get rid of all my problems,i would contribute 5k to your charity.

A think a while as he would not turn a deaf ear to such an offer.He finally found a good answer.A said 'yesterday i went to a place where thousand of people reside.As far as i could determine,not one of them has any problems.Would you like to go there?'

B replied quickly 'when can we leave? that sounds like my kind of place'

A replied 'if that case B ill be happy to take you tomorrow to the cemetery because the only people i know who don't have any problems are dead'

I love that story its written by Ken Blanchard.Norman always says if you have no problems at all,i warn you you are in grave jeopardy,you on the way out that you don't know it.If you think you don't have problems,i suggest that you immediately race home fast but as safe as possible,run into your room and go straight into your room and slam your door and get on your knees and pray 'whats the matter Lord?don't you trust me anymore?give me some problems'

:: the time moved on` ::*|2:46 AM|

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:: Me ::
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My name is Rene'e.
Regardless of age,sex,creed,denomination n religion.
I think every1 of us hav our own compelling story worth 2 tell.
My story is v colourfull.
thts 4 me 2 know 4 u 2 find out.
I view diff ppl wif diff light.
I feel more compassion 4 d ppl around me.
I think we might hav lil in common n even less 2 agree on..y not we put our diff aside n find friendship tht lasts a lifetime.

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Travel
Eating
Cooking
Musics
Art

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